May 26 • 1HR 24M

The Ultimatum: Queer Love Eps. 1-4 - Mascs and Massages

Justin and Daejah cover the first four episodes of 'The Ultimatum: Queer Love.'

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David Chen
In Decoding Reality, amazing co-hosts from around the internet analyze the latest and greatest reality TV shows.
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[DChen’s note: I’m so glad to be able to welcome Justin and Daejah back to the Decoding Reality podcast to cover The Ultimatum: Queer Love. They’ll be having a total of three chats — one for every time a new batch of episodes drops on Netflix. Here’s the first, which I’m sending out for free to everyone on the Decoding TV mailing list. Subscribe to the proper feed below to get the rest!]

Daejah and Justin are back! In this podcast, they discuss the first four episodes of The Ultimatum: Queer Love:

  • Ep 1 - The Break Up

  • Ep 2 - The Choice

  • Ep 3 - Newlyweds

  • Ep 4 - Group Nights Out

They delve deep into what makes this queer show different than any other show on television. They also talk about how heteronormative traditions still show up in queer relationships. Will Vanessa steal Rae from Lexi? Will Yoly choose Xander or Mal? Will Sam let Tiff's dog sleep in the bed?! We discuss all this and more, on this episode of decoding reality!

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